The Partner Project
A Guided Path to Healthy Lasting Love
The Partner Project
Relationship coaching for self-aware women over 40 who want to stop repeating painful relationship patterns, date with confidence, choose emotionally available partners, and build a secure, lasting relationship.
About the Project
Finding a life partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make. Yet most of us were never taught how to choose one.
You’re choosing the person you’ll build your life with and that deserves clarity and intention.
The Partner Project gives you a clear framework to date with confidence, recognise genuine compatibility, and choose a man you’re attracted to who is also emotionally available and capable of building the kind of relationship you want.
Choose the Support that Feels Right For You
The Partner Project is built around three core pillars — Steadiness, Standards & Selection — designed to help you date with greater clarity, trust yourself again, and choose a relationship where attraction and emotional safety can exist together.
1. Private 1:1 Partner Project
For the woman who wants personalised support as she navigates dating in real time.
This is our most personal way of working together. Alongside our private sessions, you’ll have my support as you navigate the situations that can feel hardest to see clearly when you’re emotionally involved.
Together, we’ll look at the men you’re meeting, the patterns that get activated, the questions you’re unsure about and the decisions you’re facing so you can slow things down, trust what you’re seeing and make choices from clarity rather than fear, chemistry or overthinking.
You’ll move through the full Partner Project Framework — Steadiness, Standards & Selection — with guidance tailored specifically to you and your dating life.
2. The Partner Project Small Group
For the woman who wants guidance, structure and the support of other women navigating the same journey.
An intimate coaching experience for a small group of women who are ready to approach dating differently.
You’ll move through the complete Partner Project Framework together, learning how to stay grounded while dating, strengthen your standards and recognise the difference between chemistry alone and genuine relationship potential.
You’ll have coaching, reflection and the perspective that comes from seeing that many of the things you’ve struggled with in dating aren’t yours alone.
The goal isn’t simply to find someone.
It’s to become confident in who you choose, why you choose him, and how you feel while you’re choosing.
The Partner Project 3 Part Framework
1 Steadiness
Staying grounded enough to tell the difference between genuine attraction and intensity.
2 Standards
Knowing what healthy love needs to look like for you, and holding those standards even when you're attracted to someone.
3 Selection
Knowing how to recognize emotional availability, compatibility & real relationship potential.
Is The Partner Project For You?
The Partner Project is for the woman who wants love, is ready for love but wants to choose differently this time.
You’ve done the work but dating still brings up old patterns.
You’re tired of confusing intensity with chemistry.
You don’t want to waste months figuring out whether someone is right for you.
You’ve built a life you don’t need a man to complete but you still want someone to share it with.
You want to trust yourself in love again.
What You Get From The Partner Project
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You know sooner if they’re worth your time or not.
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Know when to lean in, when to slow down and when to walk away.
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Learn how to choose beyond chemistry alone.
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You stop needing constant reassurance that you’re making the right choice.
What People Are Saying
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Learning What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like
Christina helped me understand how to create a happy and healthy relationship. As I began the work, she gave me effective tools to support myself through the process and helped me gain a better perspective of what healthy relationships should look like for me.
I also had a few very difficult personal challenges to deal with during my time with Christina. She did an excellent job supporting me through them by understanding my fears and anxieties while showing tremendous empathy and compassion. She really cares about her clients and has always been there for me whenever I need her.
I’ve worked with other counselors and coaches in the past, and Christina is one of the best out there.
— Aleem Nasser
Author, Tedx Speaker, University Lecturer
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From Toxic Attachment to Mental Clarity
I worked with Christina for a year and what I got was mental clarity. I was able to stick to and accept the reality of my situation. I strengthened my voice of reason and was able to distance myself from romanticizing a relationship that was toxic and abusive.
Christina taught me patience, to love and prioritize myself without feeling guilty. I became a person who stopped seeking external validation.
— A.P
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Breaking People-Pleasing and Reclaiming Direction
Christina and I discussed my people-pleasing tendency over many of our sessions. She helped me recreate my personal narrative. The story I tell myself and develop healthier strategies in areas of my life where I had previously felt stuck.
I am the kind of person who never wants to feel stuck. But it happens. As a coach, Christina helped me keep moving and pursue the life of authenticity I strive for.
Christina achieves the fine balance between listening with empathy and refocusing, while asking the questions that need to be asked in order to help her clients. I am beyond grateful to have benefited from her coaching. I now feel that each day gives me the opportunity to write my own personal narrative and refine my values and goals as a result of her support. I would recommend Christina to anyone who feels confused, hopeless, or in need of personal guidance.
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Focused, Results Driven Coaching Worth the Investment
Christina is an excellent communicator, an essential trait for a successful coach or counseling professional. She listens tentatively to every minute detail of each session, analyzing carefully and thoughtfully, and guiding you along in a very personal journey of self-discovery, at your own pace.
The sessions are unique with a high focus on achieving results. Christina and I realized one session was not enough for my situation and we ended up doing three. From an individual who is obsessed with time and efficiency productivity, all three sessions were well worth the investment.
— F.M.
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Clear Insight Into Relationship Patterns
Christina’s mastery of relationship dynamics becomes clear in the first few minutes of conversation with her. She has spent a lifetime diagnosing toxic behaviors that hinder relationship growth, is incredibly knowledgeable and insightful when it comes to the work required to unlearn these patterns of behavior, and has an intuitive style that connects seamlessly with your emotional experience.
Her workshop opened my mind and heart to many of the ways I’m continuing to perpetuate my own toxicity, as well as some techniques I can use to be checking in with myself and practice mindfulness on my own time. I would highly recommend her relationship coaching to anyone that’s having difficulty improving themselves and the extent they feel they deserve.
— F.F.
Entrepreneur & Business Coach
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Breaking Through Emotional Blocks
Christina’s structured approach and detailed questions helped me get to the bottom of where I experience blocks in my relationships. Her attention to detail really enabled me to go beneath surface layers to explore hidden emotions. In this way, I was able to come up with practical solutions to help me become aware of when I am in emotional blockages. I particularly enjoyed her positivity and how she continuously checked in with me along the way. I felt supported and empowered.
—A.M.K
Head of Corporate Strategy, STICHD